Reviews: Fawning (1)
“Five stars!”
(Hardback)
Fawning by Dr Ingrid Clayton is a compassionate, insightful and empowering exploration of one of the most misunderstood trauma responses. Many of us are familiar with fight, flight and freeze, but Dr Clayton shines a vital light on the fourth response—fawn—and the ways it quietly shapes lives, relationships and self-worth.
Drawing on both her professional expertise and personal experience, Dr Clayton writes with remarkable clarity and empathy. She explains how fawning develops as a survival mechanism and how it can become a deeply ingrained pattern that keeps us stuck in unhealthy dynamics. The balance of clinical explanation and relatable case studies makes this book accessible without losing depth, and I found myself underlining so many passages that resonated on a personal level.
At times, it truly felt as though Dr Clayton was describing my own experiences, which is a testament to how universal and validating her insights are. The book offers not just understanding but also hope—showing that healing and “unfawning” are possible through awareness, compassion and small, intentional changes.
A must-read for anyone interested in trauma recovery, personal growth or understanding their own patterns of people-pleasing. Thoughtful, validating and ultimately healing.
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Fawning: Why the Need to Please Makes Us Lose Ourselves – and How to Find our Way Back
Non-Fiction, Health & Lifestyle , Self-Help and Personal Development
Ingrid Clayton (author)
Hardback Published on: 09/09/2025
Price: £20.00
